> I can think of some folks who would be better off taking a break and sorting their personal problems rather than continuing to piss and moan about what meanies the mods are or whatever. I am far from the only person here whose personal issues are sometimes a significant part of the problem.
Oh, I certainly agree; what I meant would perhaps be more clearly expressed as "#3 probably has more need of rewriting into a more general form before being included as a general guideline"; recognizing and, where appropriate, taking an extended break to address personal issues is something that makes a good bit of general advice, the other three were just more in a form that worked as general advice without rewriting from the account of what had worked for you than that one was, IMO.
Yeah, I agree that I would not want official guidelines to sound like "The problem is you and we wish you would go the fuck away and stop bothering us." Which number 3 could easily sound like if not stated very carefully.
Oh, I certainly agree; what I meant would perhaps be more clearly expressed as "#3 probably has more need of rewriting into a more general form before being included as a general guideline"; recognizing and, where appropriate, taking an extended break to address personal issues is something that makes a good bit of general advice, the other three were just more in a form that worked as general advice without rewriting from the account of what had worked for you than that one was, IMO.